Sunday, August 7, 2011

IA Reform -- aka, I Throw My Hands Up In the Air Sometimes.

One week from tomorrow, we will stand before family, friends, and a Probate Court Judge and complete the long journey of Hannah's adoption.

"Readoption" is when a U.S. state court reviews the details of the foreign adoption and issues a new adoption decree, independent from the foreign decree, stating that the child has been adopted in conformity with the adoption law of the state. "The re-adoption is not required, but legally recommended. The three outcomes are 1) we will now have an adoption decree issued by a U.S. state court under the U.S. Constitution giving full faith and credit to Hannah's adoption decree and to all of her rights under the decree, 2) her birth certificate will be "stored" here in the Unites States so that if her Kazakhstan birth certificate is ever misplaced it is easy to access a new one, 3) her name on her birth certificate will now be legally Hannah Elizabeth Herman.

We are friends with the judge hearing the case (small town, okay?!) When I went in to file the papers, he joked that this event is kind of like "renewing your wedding vows."  Would I do it again?  In a second!!!  But although the event is significant, it does not hold the same weight for me as Hannie's finalization in Kaz. To me, Hannah  was my daughter from the minute I saw the email labeled "Girl for Herman" and fell in love with the chubby baby in the fuzzy snowsuit. And I do not have to have this event to legally affirm that.

And speaking of  laws...do you know about the the Empty Stroller March on the US Capital on August 26th?

]The march is being organized by the Both Ends Burning Campaign, a global movement to transform the broken system of international adoption.
During the march protestors will be pushing empty strollers wrapped in red tape to represent the bureaucracy that prevents children from being with families.

WHO: Both Ends Burning Campaign
WHAT: “Empty Stroller” March on the U.S. Capitol.
WHEN: 2:00 pm; Aug. 26, 2011
WHERE: START: Children’s Carousel on National Mall
END: Upper Senate Park, Washington, D.C. 20001

"Once our eyes are opened, we can't pretend we don't know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls, knows what we know, and holds us responsible to act." Prov. 24:12

Here is a link to a great article about how the U.S. Department of State and UNICEF are working to restrict inter-country adoption.  Although it is becoming increasingly difficult to adopt, it is not impossible, and we need to remember that every child has the right to a family; and we are lucky to be living in a time where minds are being opened to the reality that children can be rescued - lives can being restored.

I can also tell you that when you choose to adopt, God will teach you things that he cannot teach you any other way than through the adoption process.

Does corruption exist in adoption? Absolutely?  Do parents need to be diligent in determining the legitimacy of their agency and program prior to adoption? Absolutely.  Is it fair for parentless children to be held hostage in orphanages, condemned to life without a family, as the world slowly works towards peace and justice? Absolutely not. There are 147 million chances waiting to show you the love that God has for you. 147 million Hannah's.

Adoption is worth doing, and it's worth doing RIGHT.

A Fair-y good time eating a corn dog!
The Carousel
Riding the ponies with Papa
The Statue of Kazakhstan
Riding a horse with Tanner at a VBS kickoff party


 Riding her birthday present, a toddler 4 wheeler
 Tetherball at New London, our swim club.
 So this is Ava.  Her grandma and my mom are great friends, her mom and I are great friends.  They are the 3rd generation of Spivey/Herman friends.
 Getting her hair painted pink.  Next week she is getting feathers.
 Hugging each other or trying to drown each other? A little of both
 An inground pool and swing set, roller coaster and million toys and what do they play with?  The dog's bowl.
And this one belongs to the Reds!

4 comments:

Kelly and Sne said...

Yes, adoption does bless us in many many ways but I will say that we wanted to give a home to a child in need - NOT get a child at any cost. I posted a comment on Lori's blog about corruption in the process. We were very concerned about that and steered clear of any program that even hinted of the possibility of child traffiking or "pregnancy for hire." I am probably a bigger advocate of that stance as the bad apples are starting to ruin the whole bushel full. On a different note, I have been having a hard time figuring out when to celebrate "Family Day" with each of the kids - when I first laid eyes on them? when the judge said yes? when the official papers were signed? when we took custody? when we got home? It is especially hard when everyday I am thankful that they are my kids - not just on their one "special" day. p.s. Hannie looks like she has so much fun all the time!

Baby Kaz Moore said...

sending you warm wishes!

erinskazblog said...

Love the comments regarding International Adoption. I am sure glad we have our two Hannah's--I hope the other 147 million can find loving homes too.

Lisa said...

Amen to it all my friend!!!

It IS worth doing & doing right ~ we have 2 blessings at home to prove it!

Darling pics of your darling girl ~ always making me smile!

XOXO